Potatoes, Egg and Coffee

January 14, 2020

 

Potatoes, Egg and Coffee
 

Once upon a time a daughter complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn’t know how she was going to make it.

 

She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed.

 

Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Once the three pots began to boil, he placed potatoes in one pot, eggs in the second pot, and ground coffee beans in the third pot.

 

He then let them sit and boil, without saying a word to his daughter. The daughter, moaned and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing.

 

After twenty minutes he turned off the burners. He took the potatoes out of the pot and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the boiled eggs out and placed them in a bowl.

 

He then ladled the coffee out and placed it in a cup. Turning to her he asked. “Daughter, what do you see?”

 

“Potatoes, eggs, and coffee,” she hastily replied.

 

“Look closer,” he said, “and touch the potatoes.” She did and noted that they were soft. He then asked her to take an egg and break it.

 

After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Its rich aroma brought a smile to her face.

 

“Father, what does this mean?” she asked.

 

He then explained that the potatoes, the eggs and coffee beans had each faced the same adversity– the boiling water.

 

However, each one reacted differently.

 

The potato went in strong, hard, and unrelenting, but in boiling water, it became soft and weak.

The egg was fragile, with the thin outer shell protecting its liquid interior until it was put in the boiling water. Then the inside of the egg became hard.

 

However, the ground coffee beans were unique. After they were exposed to the boiling water, they changed the water and created something new.

 

“Which are you,” he asked his daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a potato, an egg, or a coffee bean? “

 

Moral:

In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is what happens within us.

 

Which one are you?

 

I love this story because it helps me to realize that everyone reacts to the ups and downs of life in their own way.  There is no “correct” way to react to hardship.  I think it has to do with what you have been through and how confident in where you are going.  I have seen a lot of women go through very hard time with their child’s diagnosis.  And, I remember others always saying to me, “I don’t know how you do it”, and other similar sentiments.  The fact is that you never know how strong you are until you have no choice.

This was, and often still is, one of my many mantras.

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